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If you don’t ask, you don’t get

Business

March 3, 2025

A very important rule of negotiation is, “If you don’t ask, you don’t get.”

So you must be wondering, what key questions should I be asking?

I pondered the same question when I realized that the math wasn’t mathing in all areas of my life and had to renegotiate with myself what was worth putting time and energy into.

I wasn’t experiencing the frequency of wealth consistently and I had to look at what was not aligning in my life with love, money, and energy.

At this point I understood that energy = money = love. They are not separate forces but different manifestations of the same frequency.

Here’s what I learned:

When we struggle with relationships, fatigue, illness, pricing, high costs, or inefficient spending in our business, we aren’t just dealing with situationships or numbers, we’re facing an energetic misalignment. 

I could see this clearly mirrored in my business and relationships!

If your prices are too low, you are undervaluing your energy, offering deep transformation at a fraction of its worth. Would you ever pour your love into a relationship that doesn’t reciprocate? Business is the same; your pricing should reflect the energy you pour into it. 

If costs feel too high, the exchange is imbalanced. Are you investing in what expands you, or are you unconsciously bleeding energy into areas that don’t serve your highest self? True abundance flows where energy is honored, not wasted. 

If money is being spent inefficiently, your resources are being scattered. Where are you giving without intention? Are you operating from scarcity, seeking quick fixes rather than sustainable flow? 

When love, money, and energy align, wealth becomes effortless. It is a current, not a chase. The shift isn’t in working harder, it’s in elevating your frequency to receive what is already yours.

Here’s the formula to check if you are in alignment with your offerings:

Prices are too low → I am undervaluing my energy and the love I give.

  • Am I truly honoring the worth of my gifts, wisdom, and labor?
  • Where am I leaking energy by over-giving or undercharging?
  • How can I raise my frequency to align with the abundance I desire?

Costs are too high for running the business → The exchange of energy is imbalanced.

  • Am I investing in things that truly nourish and expand me?
  • What energetic clutter or inefficiencies need clearing?
  • Is my business structure aligned with ease, flow, and sustainability?

Money is being spent inefficiently → My energy is being misdirected or fragmented.

  • Where am I unconsciously draining my resources (time, love, effort)?
  • What patterns of scarcity or self-sabotage are at play?
  • How can I refine my flow to ensure every investment (of money, time, and love) multiplies and nourishes me?

My hope for you is that these questions bring you clarity and abundance!

I see you.

You see me.

I love you.

Zeahlot

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Zeahlot is a celebrated serial entrepreneur, international speaker, mentor, and retired psychotherapist with over a decade of experience. As a visionary leader, she’s built multiple businesses and mentored hundreds of women to elevate their vision, create lasting impact, and grow their income. Sharing her insights as a female founder, Zeahlot empowers women globally to create legacy that help the world become a better place.

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