“I am my own muse. I am the subject I know best. The subject I want to know better.” — Frida Kahlo

Queen Energy vs. Princess Energy

Queen Energy is embodied by a woman who is self-assured, grounded, and in full command of her life. She leads with wisdom, discernment, and grace. She does not seek validation because she knows her worth. She makes strategic decisions, sets strong boundaries, and attracts opportunities that align with her power. A Queen is not afraid of responsibility—she embraces it, knowing that her power is in her ability to create, nurture, and rule her own domain.

• Self-Sovereignty: She governs herself first before leading others.
• Emotional Maturity: She understands her emotions and does not let them rule her.
• High Standards: She is selective about her relationships and environment.
• Legacy Minded: She moves with purpose, thinking beyond temporary desires.
• Magnetic Presence: She doesn’t chase; she attracts.

Princess Energy is often characterized by a desire to be cared for, adored, and protected. While she may have charm and beauty, she has not yet stepped fully into her own power. She may wait for external validation, seek approval, or rely on others to provide for her needs instead of creating her own kingdom.

• Seeks External Validation: She relies on praise and approval from others.
• Avoids Responsibility: She may shy away from leadership and making hard decisions.
• Romanticizes Dependency: She desires to be saved rather than empowered.
• Focus on Immediate Gratification: She prioritizes short-term pleasure over long-term growth.
• Reactive, Not Proactive: She responds to life rather than shaping it.

Both energies have their place, but stepping into Queen Energy means embracing your own power, setting standards, and leading with wisdom rather than waiting for permission to rise.

Find out which one you are by watching this:

Becoming the Woman Who Makes It Happen

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